I had a
C-Section with both girls, so this post is based off of my experiences.
Carry a pillow wherever you go.
This is huge for a “c-sectioner” Any move you make feels like your
incision is popping open. So carrying
the pillow and pressing it on your stomach as a barrier to any movement was my
saving grace. That and trying to remember to get up and sit down slowly.
Buy huge granny panties.
It’s not cute. But nothing on you will feel cute. Three reasons granny panties are the best
thing ever after delivery. 1 – you’re still swollen from pregnancy &
delivery 2 – you’re bleeding, so ruin some granny panties 3- for “c-sectioners”
you want some underwear that hit higher than your scar. Believe me. It does not
feel good when it hits against it, even if they’re seamless. And actually,
steal the disposable panties the hospital give you – they’re actually really
comfy.
Stock up on pads. Again, gross. But you have to wear something and you don’t
want the diapers the hospital give you to wear for weeks.
Ban funnies. This goes for anything – funny friends,
funny jokes, funny movies…anything. You will want to kill whoever makes you
laugh the first couple of days. If you
must laugh, have that pillow handy.
Drink lots of water.
The hospital tell you this, and it’s actually true. Ha. You’re producing
milk, losing blood/fat…staying hydrated is key!
Don’t worry about how jiggly you
are. I know it’s hard. But trust me, it eventually gets better. It may not get right back to what you were
prior to pregnancy, but it gets better.
You just had a kid – you have enough to deal with than worry yourself
about dieting and losing the weight right away.
Don’t feel bad to turn away guests. You have a lot of shit going on.
If they don’t understand that, then that’s their problem. Your friends and
family that have been through it, will totally understand though. It’s exhausting entertaining guests on top of
tending to your newborn and yourself!
Don’t feel bad accepting help. If someone offers to clean, cook,
watch your older child…say yes! Take
advantage of the offers so you can relax and enjoy your new family member J
Rest & relax.
As much as you can, when you can of course. Everyone says it, but no one
truly does it.
Recovery
is so different the first time around versus the second. Not that I didn't recover, obviously I did,
but it’s more difficult. This time around I didn't allow myself to relax – even
in the first few days after delivery. I
actually was just talking to my girlfriend the other day and told her I
remember walking up the stairs (we have 14 steps) holding my 2 year old in my
arms less than a week after delivery. Yep. Seems crazy even for me to look back
on, but I did it. I felt so much guilt
right after delivery because I was tending to a newborn instead of all my attention
going to the oldest. So I did what she wanted and what made me feel better
emotionally and less guilty. It’s just
not realistic to rest as well as you should when you have older kids running
around.
loved this post, such good tips!!! really enjoyed the tip on granny panties. made me giggle :)
ReplyDeleteIt's true! Now I know what I'm sending you when I find out you're expecting ;)
DeleteI totally agree with all these! Especially the one about turning away guests. I would even add, don't feel bad about turning down invitations. You totally need to take time to enjoy your family and recover! :)
ReplyDeleteIt's so hard to do, but a must!
Delete